September’s PSASA Pretoria Chapter gathering was a night of courage, truth, and healing. Under the theme “Think Storytelling,” we explored how sharing our stories can transform pain into purpose, silence into empowerment, and lived experience into tools for change.
Phumudzo Sambo – How Purpose Found Me
Opening the event, Phumudzo Sambo, affectionately called Phumu, invited us into her journey with her debut book, “Purpose Found Me.” Through her story, she raised awareness about abuse, mental wellness, corporate culture, work-life balance, and spirituality.
Her core message resonated deeply: no matter your background or the pain you’ve endured, your pain points can become your breakthrough.
“Phumu’s story made me rethink so much about my own life. We’re always running to look for purpose, but maybe the secret is looking within.” – Anonymous attendee.
Her authenticity and courage reminded us that if we’re willing to share our stories, as raw, uncut, and painful as they might be, we might also find purpose along that path.
From Phumu herself:
“I must commend PSASA for the wonderful opportunity to speak on How Purpose Found Me on Thursday, 25 September 2025.
What felt like being thrown into the unknown turned out to be a wonderful experience of learning from another speaker, networking with a wonderful audience and speaking from the heart! As I am new in the group, I browsed through the organisation’s website and couldn’t believe the wealth of benefits I could benefit from as a new Author who wants to network and find growth in the professional speaking space. The fact that the Pretoria PSASA office is in such a central location near my home makes it even more delightful, and I see myself as a frequent attendee at the monthly meetings going forward!
I truly felt welcome. The host, Ms Kakanyo Pilane, was a joy to work with, as she brought a level of comfort, encouragement, and accessibility. This was evident in her even offering to rehearse with me prior to the presentation in case I didn’t feel ready.
It was a lovely surprise to be offered such a delicious meal and refreshments – and the food was so delicious! I also loved how everything flowed seamlessly! It felt like home as everyone who served us from the technical team to the lady assisting with tea in the kitchen, wore a smile with warmth!”
Xoli Madlala – Why Menopause Conversations MatterX
Next, author, speaker, and policy advisor Xoli Madlala sealed the evening with a talk that touched both hearts and minds. In “Why Menopause Conversations Matter,” she reminded us that menopause shouldn’t be a private, hidden struggle that keeps women from thriving.
It’s time to reinvent the lens through which we view women’s growth, development, and evolution of our bodies. Menopause is a social, professional, and health conversation that deserves the attention of workplaces, families, and communities.
Xoli highlighted the cost of silence around menopause: women navigating changes without support, organisations losing valuable talent, and generations missing out on shared wisdom. She called for workplaces and communities to normalise conversations, foster intergenerational dialogue, and implement supportive practices.
Her message was clear: reframing menopause is about shining the spotlight on women’s health to build inclusive spaces where women can thrive.
One attendee reflected:
“She made me realise how much as women we are going through, and how important it is to understand where our emotions are coming from. Menopause is not only a cautionary tale for the elderly. But it can affect even a teenager. We need to take care and be aware of the changes in ourselves.”
The reflections from attendees captured the essence of the night:
Vuyelwa Mokoele:
“For me, it was a learning experience. I learned that one can take their life experience and teach others how to navigate through life. You’ll never know who needs to hear your story. I was inspired by the courage of both speakers to write books and share their truths. And let’s not forget—the food was delicious, and the PSASA team made me feel so welcome! I did not feel like I was a visitor.”
Anonymous:
“I loved everything about this event. I almost didn’t attend, but I’m so glad I did. Both topics—purpose and menopause—were exactly what I needed to hear. I left with deep insight and gratitude.”
Auxano7 crew- Tshepang Bapela:
“The importance of embracing your trauma, and the awareness needed for menopause, stood out for me. We must learn to turn trauma into fuel for growth, and for men especially—to support and take care of the women in our lives.”
Madam President- Kakanyo Pilane:
“An event that proved that a small number doesn’t take away from quality. Such a refreshing event. Hat off for showing up. I want to take this opportunity to thank the Auxano7 crew for their magnificent work behind the scenes and for the outstanding service. Much appreciated.”
Final Reflections
September’s meeting proved that storytelling is a bridge to understanding, a catalyst for healing, and a spark that ignites the fire connecting humanity.
From Phumudzo’s journey of turning pain into purpose, to Xoli’s call to normalise menopause conversations, the evening reminded us of the courage it takes to speak, and the transformation that happens when we do.
As we look to October, one truth remains: your story matters. And when you share it, you empower others to find the power within themselves.
