On June 26th, the PSASA Pretoria Chapter hosted one of its most inspiring gatherings yet: Speaking for Influence and Impact. The evening was filled with reflection, powerful storytelling, and thought-provoking insights.
Our vibrant MC, Natasha Malan, captured the essence of the evening beautifully:
“As a coach who is passionate about levelling up, mindset, and driving change, I could not have asked for a more aligned theme or a more dynamic group of speakers.”
Each speaker brought something different, yet all echoed a central message: the way we use our voice matters, and our influence grows when it’s rooted in purpose, clarity, and connection.
Embracing Mortality to Inspire Purpose – Gadifele Moeng
Gadifele Moeng opened the evening with her moving talk, “Beyond the Veil: How Embracing Mortality Can Unlock Your Influence.”
Rather than shy away from the topic of death, Gadifele invited us to lean into it. Her message reframed mortality as a motivator—to live with urgency, speak with courage, and let go of what no longer serves our calling.
One attendee reflected,
“Most people fear talking about death, but Gadifele’s confidence was a reminder that each of us will die. So what are we doing with the time we’ve been given today?”
Her words were not morbid; they were empowering. They reminded us that influence begins the moment we stop waiting and start living with intention.
The Power of the Written Word – Kyle Jantjies
Kyle Jantjies brought practical wisdom and contagious energy with his session, “Every Speaker Needs A Book.”
As a 16-time author and coach, Kyle reminded us that a book is one of the most powerful tools for extending influence. It communicates depth, dedication, and a clear message that can outlast any single talk or engagement.
He emphasized the importance of having a strategy and accountability to finish the process, encouraging each of us to take the leap.
As one attendee noted,
“When you have a book, people assume you’re knowledgeable, passionate, and a strong communicator.”
Kyle’s talk left many of us considering the legacy we want to leave and the stories we need to write.
Community is the Multiplier – Chantelle Botha
Chantelle Botha closed the evening with her message, “The Ripple Effect.” Her reminder was simple but profound: influence thrives in community.
She asked us to consider our intentions—are we joining networks to gain something, or are we showing up to contribute? Chantelle emphasized that visibility alone isn’t enough. True impact requires connection, generosity, and collaboration.
One powerful line stuck with many:
“You can’t expect to make a withdrawal where you haven’t made a deposit.”
She challenged us to shift from transactional relationships to co-creation, to find tribes that align with our vision, and to give before we expect to receive.
As another attendee shared,
“Chantelle’s message needs to be heard. We often join communities looking for what we can get, but we rarely pause to ask what we can give. Every relationship requires a deposit.”
Reflections from the Room
There was something unique about the energy that night—warm, open, and grounded. Attendee Christa captured it well:
“It was encouraging to see the comfort the speakers presented with. Visibility, value, and building relationships really resonated with me. I’m looking forward to many more lovely, informative, and get-to-know-one-another-better conversations.”
Final Thought
This PSASA Pretoria meeting reminded us that influence is not just about stage presence or polished delivery. It’s about showing up with purpose, sharing what matters, and connecting in ways that leave a lasting ripple.
We may gather monthly, but the lessons from this evening will continue to shape how we speak, lead, and live—long after the applause fades.
